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Episode · Feb 25, 2026 · 1 hr 35 min

Dirty Feet and a Battered Back

with Nick Bare

Nick Bare is the founder of BPN, a former Army infantry officer, and an endurance athlete.

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Summary

Ken and Nick discuss the pressure Nick creates by announcing ambitious goals before he feels ready, and how public accountability can help him follow through. Nick traces his drive to childhood, describes recovering from anorexia, and recounts starting BPN in a college apartment while serving as an Army infantry officer. He talks about Ranger School, bootstrapping the company with a camera and online videos, nearly running out of cash, and learning to stay close to customers as the business grew.

They revisit Leadville, a marathon that felt unusually easy, and Nick's habit of spending too much attention on preparation details. Nick explains why he stepped down as CEO when burnout caught up with him, then returned with a clearer sense of purpose. He and Ken connect faith with marriage, fatherhood, and leadership, and discuss why Nick now measures success by the person he becomes while pursuing a goal.

Show notes

Nick Bare has built his life in public. He announces the goal before he’s ready. He signs up for the race that might break him. He puts the business on the line and accepts the pressure that comes with it.

This episode isn’t about highlight reels. It’s about what happens when discipline meets doubt.

Nick talks about building BPN from a college apartment while serving as an Army infantry officer, surviving Ranger School, nearly running out of cash in the early years, stepping down as CEO from burnout, and eventually coming back to lead with more clarity and humility.

We get into Leadville breaking him, the marathon that felt effortless, and why he believes most people sabotage themselves by “majoring in the minors.” But the real shift came when achievement stopped delivering peace and faith reframed how he sees success, marriage, fatherhood, and leadership.

At its core, this conversation is about overcoming ego, pressure, and the constant pull of ?what’s next.? It’s about becoming the kind of person who doesn’t negotiate when things get hard.

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Transcript

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Ken Rideout

Nick Bear, welcome to the show.

Nick Bare

Ken, thank you.

Ken Rideout

Thank you for doing this, man. I really appreciate it.

Nick Bare

I'm grateful. It's just been awesome to see what you've done over the years, especially as you get older, just keep throwing down.

Ken Rideout

Well, for what it's worth, I feel super inspired by you. I think that when I think about hybrid athletes, I think that you are the standard. And I'll tell you why. Cuz there's guys like Hunter McIntyre. They're awesome at Hy Rocks. But, and not to detract from anything he's done. is not an attack on him, but let's see him do an iron man, then a bodybuilding show, then run a sub3h hour marathon. And maybe he could do those things, but there's one guy that is doing those things and that's you.

And I just every time you announce a new goal, I'm like, this is what I love about Nick. He's just like, hey, I'm doing this. And you know that there's a lot of haters out there that are going to be like, there's no way he's going to do that. And then you do it. And when you don't do it, you just dig in, re reccalibrate, and get on to the next goal. And um it's super inspiring to watch.

Nick Bare

I appreciate that. I mean, really, it's just pursuing curiosities and keeping things interesting.

Um you know like the the reason I initially started to explore endurance training is I got tired and bored of just strictly strength training and then I went after a marathon and then I wanted to explore a new curiosity and that evolved into triathlon and then when I was training for Iron Man's you know I threw my name in the hat for Leadville name was selected and then explored that curiosity and for me it's just and wanting to know what I can do, where I can push it, but also being humbled being the new guy in a space and learning in the process.

It's just been fun keeping things fun, interesting, new, and exploring those curiosities.

Key takeaways

  • Public goals can create accountability, but they also add pressure that has to be managed.
  • Nick says early work on BPN required using limited cash and learning to make content himself.
  • Responsibilities to family sometimes matter more than following a training routine exactly.
  • Detailed preparation can distract from the few decisions that most affect a race.
  • Nick connects faith with a healthier view of success, marriage, fatherhood, and leadership.

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