Episode · Mar 20, 2026 · 1 hr 29 min
Missing the Olympics to Training the Cultural Icons
with Bobby Rich
Bobby Rich is a former Team GB judoka who became a coach to athletes, actors, and other public figures.
Summary
Bobby Rich tells Ken that his mother introduced him to judo when he was five or six. He started winning junior titles and joined Team GB at 15, then struggled when he moved into senior competition and lost repeatedly to older, stronger opponents. Rich describes his path toward Beijing 2008, the strain of extending his career for another Olympic cycle, and walking away after missing the team. Five weeks after a promoter called, he accepted an MMA fight. He says the challenge excited him even as the walk to the ring unsettled him.
After competing, Rich built a coaching career, starting at London's Third Space and later training boxer David Haye and director Guy Ritchie. He describes meeting Ritchie through the Budokwai judo club and moving from gym sessions into film work. Ken and Rich also discuss Rich's 15-year partnership with David Beckham, elite speed, building a coaching business, and staying confident through nerves and setbacks. They close on family life and the discipline required to keep showing up.
Show notes
Bobby Rich went from East London kid to Team GB judoka, winning national titles and chasing the Olympics—only to fall short at the final hurdle.
What followed wasn’t a comeback story. It was a complete reinvention.
In this episode, Bobby breaks down the brutal transition from dominating as a junior to getting humbled by grown men, the mental toll of missing Beijing 2008, and the decision to walk away at his peak. He shares why he took an MMA fight on five weeks’ notice, what fighting fear actually feels like, and how mindset—not talent—separates those who last.
From training with Roger Gracie to coaching David Haye, working on Guy Ritchie film sets, and building a 15-year partnership with David Beckham, Bobby rebuilt his life brick by brick—without shortcuts.
This is a conversation about pressure, identity, discipline, and what happens when the dream doesn’t go your way—and you have to build something better.
Transcript
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Ken Rideout
Bobby Rich, welcome to the show. Thank you very much, Mr. Rideout. Absolute pleasure. I feel like I've known you for my whole life. I feel like you're the British version of all my Boston friends.
Bobby Rich
Well, I take that as a huge compliment. Likewise, likewise.
Ken Rideout
Let's introduce people to who you are. Team GB judo man, trainer to the stars. How did it all start and how did you start the judo journey because and and to set this up, my my youngest son is into jujitsu, he's into wrestling.
Bobby Rich
You I'll see your posts and the family posts, it brings makes my heart very warm to see.
Ken Rideout
And you know, watching your son do any kind of one-on-one combat sport and trying to convince him that it's okay to lose in the early days. I tell him all the time, you don't get to be the best without being the worst first. Everyone who shows up on day one is the worst.
Bobby Rich
Yeah, yeah.
Ken Rideout
If you can't fight through that and especially with wrestling and he got pinned at a couple tournaments, it broke my heart and you know, he's 10 so they all cry after they lose. And I said to him, there's 100 matches going on right now. Every single one of them has a winner and a loser. The difference is some of the losers are going to turtle up and give up and the and others are going to learn from every mistake and never view it as a loss but learn.
Tell me about your intro to judo and how you got started.
Bobby Rich
So, my intro was was my mom. My mom when there was no other family member growing up that got into it. My sister was into horses. That's that's that was her thing. That's her thing now. Um but me apparently when we used to have play dates and we talk him when I was like five or six years old. Used to come over and used to get this couch sofa pillows on the floor, WWF style, you know, off jumping off the edge of the sofa like you with the the the the top rope.
And I used to just love love wrestling, quite physical. And there was a judo club 5 minutes down the road. Six years old, five or six years old and now being a parent knowing whether it was a an active choice that she saw that I liked wrestling and I was physical and that would be the right thing to do. There was probably also an element of now I have kids it's like I I need to find things to do for my kids is you know just and you try everything right and you've got kids so you're just like you know what what's close by what can they do what can we you know fill up the schedule with fortunately there was a judo club down the road and um it was once a week once a week that I go and it was once a week for a couple of months but shortly after that I was two three times a week from the age
Of six years old and it just gripped me gripped me hard I absolutely loved it um and that was it that was from six years old that was my that was my outlet let's say I mean you know physically and emotionally did I know that when I was six seven eight years old emotionally but for sure it was you know I'm sure there was the you know the energy that you frustrations that you have as a kid you know you got them out on the mat.
But yeah that was that was all thanks to my dear old mum got me into judo.
Ken Rideout
It's interesting that there was a judo place there versus like a karate or taekwondo.
Bobby Rich
Yeah could have been very different.
Ken Rideout
The thing I love about judo though is it's an Olympic sport it's like anyone can do it like you anyone it's it's not overly it's not like boxing you're going to go in and you're going to get punched in your face. With judo you learn to get thrown and you learn to hit the ground there's a little bit of element of like initially the way they do it right it's there's a little bit of safety when you first get there you're not just getting mauled like in like in boxing wrestling you get you get mauled in wrestling.
Bobby Rich
Listen boxing's judo's hard right it's physical it's you know I'm biased but it's me I think it's one of the hardest sports out there as an Olympic sport there's so many aspects of fitness that goes into it from aerobic anaerobic power strength muscular endurance. It's a hard sport. But, for me, I don't want to be punched in the face. I retired from judo at at uh 28, and after that I did one MMA fight, and uh I won.
Ken Rideout
Yeah.
Bobby Rich
But, after that I retired. I was one and oh, I was unbeaten. But, you know, and I I loved it, and I I just loved the challenge, but I didn't like being punched in the face. I didn't enjoy that, but judo was my calling, and that's what I did enjoy. But, that was um you know, when did I win my first first title? I was I had some school titles, but the first meaningful national title I was 15 years old, British champion.
Ken Rideout
Yeah. Oh, wow.
Bobby Rich
So, you know, it was a good 10 years before I actually did anything, but then at the roundabout 15, there was like little things happening in competitions I was winning as a junior that kind of gave my mom some insight to, you know, my ability that actually we should pursue this as opposed to it just being like something for fun, and, you know, traveling around the country, but there's no hope in
Ken Rideout
Yeah.
Bobby Rich
Anything coming of it. But, at 15, it was kind of like, okay, shit's going to get serious. And that was that was kind of the start of it. So, from the age of 15, got on to the team Team GB, and uh yeah, the rest is rest is history, really.
Ken Rideout
Yeah, but the thing I was getting out of about the judo and the jujitsu is the same way. Anyone can go down and get introduced and know enough to know, okay, when a black belt grabs a hold of me in judo or jujitsu, it's over. But, they also can grab a hold of you and not hurt you.
Bobby Rich
Yeah.
Ken Rideout
In boxing, there's no you don't play boxing. You get mauled. And same wrestling, you're like, oh my god, I'm getting dominated.
Bobby Rich
Yeah.
Ken Rideout
But, I like those martial arts where you can control the aggression, and you can introduce new participants. Like, if you don't have a like the right mentality, boxing is just going to turn people away as soon as they start sparring.
But, um so, when you're on Team GB, what is that and what is that entail? So, 15, you're on the team the national team, you're on the junior national team.
Bobby Rich
Junior national team at 15. And you know, I'm still at school. But it's, you know, like I said, at that point it was this is my thing. This is what I want to do. This is what I what I want to pursue. So everything was based around that. My poor mom, you know, her weekends were spent you know, either at judo tournaments in like sports centers or like small stadiums as as time went on. Um or at my sister's horse riding stables, yeah. That's all she did, bless her.
But um that was that was all in everything. I was at school so you know, two, three times a week after after school in the evenings it was spent at the dojo dojo, local dojo. And then every other weekend there was a tournament. But uh as time time goes on, you know, I I finished school, went on to study in college. But that's when it started getting getting serious, you know, you're under 18. You start fighting men, right? They they still have youth programs so you're under 18 and under 21s.
But once you turn 18, you start fighting men, which um that in itself was quite interesting. You know, as a junior I was like I was crushing it. You know, I was you know, and as you do, you're a kid and you're like you believe your own hype a little bit and you're doing some damage and I never forget my first year in seniors was was tough. I lost every fight within the first minute in every tournament for like a year, you know, no less than a year, maybe more.
And to your point, it's like that's that's where the real comes in, right? That's like I could have been like I'm no good at it, I'm going to give it up. And you know, well that was like the first insight to you know, which way I'm going to go. Am I going to pursue this and mean it or am I just going to give up and find something else? So yeah, that year was that year was brutal, you know, cuz you're going you're going to tournaments and you're fighting you're 18 and you're fighting men.
It's probably 6, 27, 28, you know, and you've gone from dominating individuals to walking out and dudes just grabbing you and just like doing whatever they want with you. And it's, you know, judo is judo strength is is something else. Yeah. A judo player, world level judo player gets hold of you, it's
Ken Rideout
Yeah, you're done.
Bobby Rich
It's it's tough, but Yeah, yeah.
Ken Rideout
Trying to explain that to someone who's never had any combat experience, jiu-jitsu, wrestling, boxing, anything is when the judo guy grabs a hold of you, I don't even care if you're like jiu-jitsu like black belt. If a judo guy gets the right hold on you, you're going for a ride.
Bobby Rich
It's it's it's scary. I mean, there's been even times when I was a senior and, you know, I started doing some damage, but there were still individuals that I would I would fight with and, you know, they just every now and then they'd give you a glimpse of their the capability of what strength they had behind those grips and you're like, "Okay." But at the same time, I teach now a lot at jiu-jitsu clubs, so judo's my background and then round about 20, 21 years old, I started doing jiu-jitsu with Roger Gracie.
Ken Rideout
Yeah.
Bobby Rich
Um when he came to London, he came and did a lot of stand-up with us. So, he wanted to improve his stand-up, so he came to judo. And then vice versa, I went to jiu-jitsu to improve my groundwork. My ground game was ish.
Ken Rideout
Cuz judo involves groundwork, right?
Bobby Rich
Judo involved groundwork, so it's called newaza. So, that's groundwork, but it's like the easiest way to explain it, judo's like 90% standing and then like 10% groundwork, then jiu-jitsu's flipped the other way. But my groundwork was was was okay, you know, but there'd be times in certain tournaments I'd get someone to the ground and they'd be like, "Okay, like what are you going to do?" You know, so I I had to improve, so that's where I met Roger. And then fast forward 20 years to now, I'm now trying to implement some some of my stand-up knowledge from over the years into the jiu-jitsu world and helping, you know, a lot of competitors, but I'm also there's a it's it's a great thing, judo's with social media and and the um the growth of jujitsu has kind of also put a light onto judo as well.
So, I teach judo at the jujitsu club and uh it's a great fun time, but what I was going to say is you get we talk about the strength of judo players, but when I'm teaching some of these um newbies to judo or jujitsu like stand up to jujitsu guys, I equally get you know, someone can come out and they can grab you with force and strength like it's like [ __ ] that's like what is that? But equally someone can come out and they can grip you very relaxed.
They can just put your hand on you and it's the way they've done it, you know, and the fact that they're so relaxed and comfortable you're like this guy knows something that I don't, right? So, it goes it goes both ways.
Ken Rideout
So, if you see someone stand up in a street fight and they're just way too comfortable with their hands up versus, you know, the typical guy who's stiff as a board his hands are up and
Bobby Rich
Screaming or shouting or something and then you have the guy standing there smiling you're like
Ken Rideout
And just like sticking a jab I'm like the the other guy's going to get killed.
Bobby Rich
Exactly.
Ken Rideout
In the early days, who was your coach and how was he working with you as you're getting dominated in your first year of seniors? He must be like, "Listen, stick with it. This is what happens." But, there must be some there must be some like savants that just show up even at 18 and they're just handing people their ass, right? Like people with just naturals.
Bobby Rich
Yeah, you get that in every sport, right? And it's I think that transition from junior to senior so weeds out those the natural ability and not weeds it out, but it kind of that's the bit where it starts getting serious where natural ability can carry you so far. But, when you start fighting men, coaches see it, you know, coaches who they recognize like something. It you know, it's it's like me now. If I if I see someone on the mat who's a jujitsu player and they're but they do some stand-up they might the way they move or the way they grip or their approach to it.
There's something that just goes, "Ah." It might be like, you know, you might see someone running.
Ken Rideout
Oh, yeah, for sure.
Bobby Rich
And you're like, they might be in that moment whether it's a technique or their mindset or something you're like there's something there. So, there's coaches there that see that and it you know, it's tough for a coach. But, as long as they're seeing some forward progression in some way, shape or form they stick with you. I mean, I was fortunate that I had two great coaches that Ray Stevens, Barcelona Olympic silver medalist and then I had Darcio Yanzi, French national coach. He was junior and European senior champion at the same time.
He was phenomenal coach. So, I was blessed with great coaches around me.
Ken Rideout
And when they see you when you turn senior and they're seeing you getting it getting handled and like feel probably getting down on yourself, how are they working helping you work through it?
Bobby Rich
A lot of it's mindset. You know, there was a lot of it obviously technique, you know, and it's judo is the learning curve for judo is so steep. Yeah, so steep. So steeper than it is jujitsu. Jujitsu is super technical very and there's there's so much to it not taking anything away from it in any way, shape or form, but judo is you've got all the dynamics of jujitsu, but you're on your feet. So all of a sudden you've now got to worry about your balance, your opponent's balance.
So there's that element to it. So the learning curve to judo is is super super steep. So your mindset is a huge thing, but repetition turning up, banging out the reps. So you know, it's it's a sense of feeling as opposed to thinking.
Ken Rideout
Yeah.
Bobby Rich
Yeah.
Ken Rideout
So you when when did you start to like turn the corner when you were at the senior level?
Bobby Rich
Senior level, it was actually around the time about a year after I started working with Larbi Benboudaoud
Ken Rideout
Mhm.
Bobby Rich
Um he's phenomenal phenomenal um French judoka. He had great success. But his approach was you know, he's a European fighter, but he had beautiful traditional judo and movement as well. European judo is is quite strong is quite is a lot more physical. Japanese judo, you know, typically way back when it's very much stand up and a little bit more traditional based on what we call kuzushi like breaking balance. So it's all about being efficient. Uh European judo is a lot more physical, more wrestling style. And um that was my approach.
I had that wrestling kind of background hence the cauliflower ears as sticking my head in [ __ ] places it shouldn't have been in. But um Larbi came along and he opened my judo up a lot more. So there was a lot more movement um a lot more action reaction, creating moments and opportunities by movement with my opponent. So that was that was around about 2005 I won the US Open.
Ken Rideout
Yeah.
Bobby Rich
Um that was kind of
Ken Rideout
Oh in America?
Bobby Rich
In America. Yeah, full loaded out. That was That was probably the first sort of major title that I won. And it's It's like anything. It's just that's the confidence. You know, you know you have the ability. So, it wasn't a shock that I won, but it was just It was what I needed at the time to then walk into tournaments to have that confidence and belief in yourself.
Ken Rideout
I always find that winning a big event like that most of the time afterwards I feel just relief more than happiness. I'm like, "Oh, thank god I did it." I feel like that's over. And then you go back to training. Absolutely. Absolutely. My wife when I won the world title in the marathon, she's like, "Oh my god, you did it." She called me on the phone. It was in Chicago. She's like, "How happy are you?" I'm like, "God, I'm so relieved. I can't even be happy right now.
I'm just like I want to I like want to cry because it's over and I did it and I'm just like so relieved.
Bobby Rich
But that's also a reflection of everything that you've put into it. Right? Like everything that you've put into it.
Ken Rideout
I can look at it now and be happy, but it's not something where like it's like you. You're like, "Yeah, I won these things, but it's like that's what I did. That was part of it. It was a drive. It was part of a survival."
Bobby Rich
To. The journey, right? So, that was for me it was a moment in time that was incredible and I know it's just a small part of the the big picture that needed to happen. After that, I went on and won the British Open uh Sarajevo Open. I won a few European titles um at big European events and that's kind of where it all started changing. So, yeah, it's been a It was a long journey. I didn't get to where I wanted to get to at the Olympic Games.
That was the um That was the pinnacle of any
Ken Rideout
And what year was that? What year was 2008?
And so you Did you have a Do they have a trials in the in GB?
Bobby Rich
Yeah, so what you do is you have the Olympic qualifying season, which is give or take about 18 months. Once they decide the two players pretty much that are going to move forwards for the qualifying season, it's up to those two players in each weight category to qualify the weight group. So, you're you're there to qualify the weight group and then a selection process is made a few months sort of is usually uh springtime before the Summer Olympics at the um that the decision's made.
So, April time.
Ken Rideout
And it's a decision made by a committee based on performances?
Bobby Rich
It's based on so, you qualify the weight category, but it's also based on your own points and performances at the time. So, it's uh it's
Ken Rideout
Prefer they do that or just head-to-head? You two guys have done all the work, just go at it and the winner's
Bobby Rich
No, I mean it's Yeah, it's not I mean I mean I wish it was as simple as I beat that guy that went so, I should go cuz you know, but it's unfortunately it's not as not as simple as that because different styles favor different people. Just cuz I beat the individual that went to the games, you know, it doesn't mean that I was going to beat the people that he was going to fight.
Ken Rideout
I saw Yeah, different styles. And does Olympic have a distinctive style that you're facing?
Bobby Rich
Style in terms of the what's happening on the mat, but just different different countries have different styles of fighters. So, like I was saying, Japanese is way more stand-up traditional. Russian or Georgian, it's very kind of like wrestling-based, [ __ ] you know, so it's it's all of that kind of stuff. So, yeah, it your my own way of fighting might have an effect on one type of player, but it might not have an effect on you know, he might have the answers to my game.
So, yeah, it's uh at the time you're like I can do that. I should be going there, but then you know, you you quickly you quickly realize it's not as simple as that. And by the time the Olympics come, you've done 18 months of literally every 2 weeks you're in a different country for a tournament and then for 5 days after that tournament, you're at an international training camp. And you're fighting you're fighting the same people pretty much Yeah, week in week out. for 18 months.
So, by the time the Olympics come, you kind of you know who's in the mix, who's doing what, and then you know, so it's it's not a huge surprise, but you know, it's it's a it's a tough pill to swallow.
Ken Rideout
Yeah, for sure. And when when that happens, when you don't make the team, where do you go from there? Are you like, I'm going to go I'll do another 4 years, or are you thinking like I've I'm tapped out. I've been doing this too long.
Bobby Rich
It depends on depends on the weight category, but for me it kind of it was the it was just where it fell.
Ken Rideout
Yeah.
Bobby Rich
You know, it kind of where you where the cycle falls for you at the age. By the time the Beijing Olympics came, it was I was 28.
Ken Rideout
Yeah.
Bobby Rich
Another 4 years at 28, that's that's a big commitment, right? That's to 32. I could have done it. I probably, you know, that's probably the max it absolutely would have been. But for me, I kind of chucked everything at Beijing.
Ken Rideout
Yeah.
Bobby Rich
And I didn't, you know, it's I'm pretty happy with what I chucked.
Ken Rideout
Yeah.
Bobby Rich
You know, everything in the kitchen sink to get there. Um and I didn't get there. Was I going to be any better in 4 years? You know, people can think what they want into that in terms that it's a defeatist mindset, but you know, I'm pretty honest with myself and and what I put into it, and I can look back and be like I did pretty much everything I could do with the circumstances I had, and and I didn't get there.
Ken Rideout
Well, that's that's the thing with the opinions, right? The only opinion that should matter to you is your own, and if you know you did everything that you could do, then then problem solved. You can move on with your life. Like what is the difference what anyone else thinks?
Bobby Rich
And I think that's that's a that's a big mindset that sort of makes the difference between what people are doing, right?
Ken Rideout
Yeah, well, the stuff that you're doing doesn't require requires a big mindset, because to even think you could make an Olympic team is audacious. Not a lot of people can even dream that big.
Bobby Rich
Yeah, I mean, I'm I'm happy with how it turned out, you know?
Ken Rideout
How soon after that did you do your MMA fight?
Bobby Rich
It was before the Olympics. So, they make the selection
Ken Rideout
Yeah.
Bobby Rich
Sort of April May time.
Ken Rideout
Yeah.
Bobby Rich
Before the summer Olympics had happened, I was already, you know, in a MMA ring.
Ken Rideout
Which
Bobby Rich
Was like Cage Warriors. No, it was nothing spectacular. It was something like Cage Warriors or something in
Ken Rideout
Oh, cool.
Bobby Rich
Maybe no, Battleground. It was something called Battleground. It wasn't Cage Warriors. It wasn't quite as big as that. But it was Battleground. It was in the middle of Middlesbrough Town Hall.
Ken Rideout
Yeah.
Bobby Rich
Quite honestly, the audience was scarier than the individual I fought in the middle. But no, I just I've been around fighting since I was six. And I've worked in, you know, martial arts gyms. I've traveled all around the world and trained with, you know, I've worked in boxing, you know, I used to work with David Haye. I used to be his coach. So I've done all sorts of forms of striking, you know, and I'm not scared of being hit. So although I said I I don't really don't really like it, but you know, I'm not scared of it.
But um before the Olympics happened, I got approached by this guy. He said, "Listen, we've got promotion in 5 weeks or 3 months time. Do you want to be on it?" And I was like, "Yeah, sure. I'll do the one in 5 weeks." You know, and it was I was just like, "If I do it in 5 weeks, fewer people will know about it. I just want to go and have a challenge." I was the fittest I'd ever been, you know, 28 years old, just missed out on the games, and you know, I I'm sure there was, you know, looking back now, there was a you know, a a frustration that needed to get out.
And also just maybe just a just a challenge, one final challenge that I needed, you know, for myself. And yeah, that was
Ken Rideout
How intimidating was it getting ready for the MMA fight? Like actually walking out there was it like cuz I know when I think about getting in a cage fight, I think I couldn't think of anything more intimidating. And I've had some boxing matches and done a bunch of things, but the thought of getting in a cage cuz like with jiu-jitsu, okay, you know, there's almost that you know that at some point and you see it all the time. The guy just lets himself get submitted. I've had enough of this.
Just go ahead and choke me. They look like they're trying, but you know they're not. Yeah. You can see it. Yeah. In judo to a certain extent, you can go for a ride and be like, "Oh, you got me." Oh, you know, you you can get out whenever you want and save a little face. Boxing, you know where to hide. But jujitsu MMA, you're getting effing mauled if you know
Bobby Rich
I I'd signed up for this this event and they told me who was going to fight and I didn't want to know anything about it.
Ken Rideout
Yeah.
Bobby Rich
Right. Just part from the location, the date, you know, kind of my lads we went up we went up in a big van. It was like five or six of us went up. And uh you know, this it was it was 2008. So, social media-wise
Ken Rideout
Yeah.
Bobby Rich
It wasn't
Ken Rideout
Wasn't huge.
Bobby Rich
Wasn't huge and
Ken Rideout
It wasn't a concern like it would be today. You get knocked out of today on MMA social media, it's all over the place, right?
Bobby Rich
But less than that it was it was more to do with just like I didn't want to eat It was honest, right? It was why I was doing it was about me and what I wanted to I love a challenge. Yeah. I do everything once, right? I've done a done a triathlon, I've done a marathon, I've done horse riding, I've done everything once. I love a challenge. So, it was it was it was that. It was it was it was more of a challenge for me than sort of proving anything on socials.
But I'd signed up and um I didn't want to know anything about this guy at all. And then
Ken Rideout
There's like two approaches. You either over analyze or you just ignore everything.
Bobby Rich
I'd done five five five weeks notice, right? To do this tournament. And there's nothing that I'm going to do in five weeks that's really going to you know, yes, your fitness you can improve, but I you know, I was the fittest like I was the fittest I was ever going to be.
Ken Rideout
Yeah, yeah.
Bobby Rich
You know, I was I was trying to get to the games like, you know, judo S&C for judo fighters is some of the the best, you know, some of the fittest people I know.
Ken Rideout
And I see you doing those rope pull climbing the rope with just arms and I'm like, damn that dude
Bobby Rich
Physically I was physically I was like, you know, it's happy place and I knew there was nothing that was going to nothing was going to improve from the technical side of things in terms of like punching. I mean, I was well, like I said, David Haye is a their friend of mine and uh he's I don't know David Haye is a former world cruiserweight and heavyweight boxer. I mean very very good friend of mine. I worked with him closely and Adam Booth uh for the did Shane train him?
Uh no, he didn't train him. Uh Shane I can't remember I think he did some stuff with George Groves who was part of I worked with George quite
Ken Rideout
I was just I was just talking to Shane on the way here. I'm going to bring him to I'm going to see him tomorrow.
Bobby Rich
He's a special guy. Send him my love. He's a very very special guy. Talented as a coach but he just like his by the way, his mindset and what he sees you know, is what I'm talking about where he will the nuances he will see and if I that that's that's super special.
Ken Rideout
Shane Josh Taylor, he's trained a bunch of guys. He's like, you know, you can't fake your way through that level of uh knowledge and skill like when you get to that level
Bobby Rich
And it's it's the consistency which he's done it, you know, so he's phenomenal.
Ken Rideout
And he had an excellent mentor in his dad who was a killer.
Bobby Rich
I mean, that does it get any better than that? I um David Haye I remember I said I've got 5 weeks for a fight. He's just like, all you need to do is a haymaker. I mean, that was that was his line, right? But he was like, listen, you're going to go square to square in the middle of the ring with him. You'll look down. You'll look up. You're going to know where his feet are. You're going to roughly know how tall he is. Just swing.
Ken Rideout
Yeah.
Bobby Rich
And uh
Ken Rideout
And grab a hold of
Bobby Rich
It was literally what I did. So I did a I did a BJJ tournament before that and um I was a purple belt I think I was a purple belt at the time and I won my division and then I did the absolute and I won that. That was the week before.
Ken Rideout
Oh wow.
Bobby Rich
And the guy that I was fighting in the MMA tournament, he had apparently I only found out after after the fight on the stairs out the back he was like, I heard about the tournament that you did the week before. I knew about your jiu-jitsu skills. He was like, I obviously knew he was like, he did what I was trying not to, right? Like Did everything I He was like, his um I know about your judo and stuff like that. Unfortunately, that overrode everything. But, the night before the fight, I had stupidly gone onto YouTube, hit one five fights.
He was five and 0. He was a kickboxer. He had knocked everyone out, right? We were in the middle of a town hall. He comes out like to Kanye West Jesus Walks. He's like in the middle. He's got his hands in front. He's got his whole gym coming out behind him. They're walking like this. He's got a shaved head, eyebrow like that. He just looks just mean as hell. And I'm just like, I remember they were just like, you know, what what music do you want to walk out to?
Like, [ __ ] do you mean what music? I've got enough to worry about the ring. You just play whatever you want to play. I don't care. But, yeah, that that was terrifying. But, couple of minutes in, he was so scared of the grappling side of things. He nullified his own technique. His hips were out. He was too worried about going down too much in the clinch that he killed his own game. So, you know, it worked out. I managed to go in close, grab him, uppercut.
I felt his body just drop, and it was And I'll send you the fight, but it was just like it was just swinging, right? And I managed to catch him, and um there's this one picture where I'm over the top ready to like
Ken Rideout
Yeah.
Bobby Rich
Everyone's like, "Oh my god, you look vicious. You caught him. You're going to take him down. He was out. You horrible man. Why are you going to" I'm like, "No, no, I wasn't trying to hurt him anymore. I was just I was more scared that he was going to get back up and [ __ ] destroy me, right? So, I was just like, "No, no, like" But, uh yeah, so that was MMA. But, I love a challenge, but for me judo you know, I loved the the the history of judo, the tradition, the discipline, um the mindset of a of a judo player.
So, and that for me was after after that MMA fight, it was kind of that was my time to bow out.
Ken Rideout
More like physical chess. Judo and jujitsu and judo both physical chess. But, to anyone who's not had a fight, a boxing match of any kind of combat can't comprehend the feeling of the other person walking out. They could be coming out in a freaking skirt and you'd be like, "Oh, he must be trying to trick me." You'd convince yourself that he was a killer in a dress. Like they that there's nothing like the feeling of seeing the other guy coming out going, "Okay, we're going to try to hurt each other right now."
Bobby Rich
The scenarios that you play in your mind to us. And that for me was, I think, the biggest thing, one of the biggest hurdles that I had to get over was my my mental preparation.
Ken Rideout
Yeah.
Bobby Rich
I used to get so nervous.
Ken Rideout
Yeah.
By the way, everybody does.
Yeah, and by the way, it's it's and it's I don't I didn't ever want to
Bobby Rich
One time I walked into a fight without nerves. It was it was like a national tournament and you know, it was it was a trials for the national national tournament. So, it wasn't it wasn't a huge, but it was like the southern area trials to get points to get to the the British trials at the end of the year. And the guy that I was facing I'd beat him like five, six times that year, you know, at numerous other national events. Like destroyed him. Yeah. I get called to fight him first and I [ __ ] like it's cool.
Like I've got this. I was already thinking about the the next person that I might have if he wins and this and that. I walked out and he leveled me out in 10 seconds. And when I say he leveled me out, he hit me with a foot sweep. I was like four foot off the ground, like parallel to the floor and ceiling and I I was done. And that was the one time that I walked out with with no nerves. So, it doesn't serve you well.
So, when people say like, you know, I wasn't nervous, I'm like, "Get the [ __ ] out of here." Like, "Of course you were nervous. It's okay to be nervous. It's just how you harness that pressure and what you do with it." Um so, that but that was that was a big thing for me in terms of that physically, I was, you know, a bit of a beast. I was like
Ken Rideout
Yeah.
Bobby Rich
Benching, you know, I was like my nickname in judo was Bobby Big Chest. You know, so I was I was benching some
Ken Rideout
Hello.
Bobby Rich
Some weight and some deadlifts and and that side of stuff I was strong, but it was it was the mindset that I really need to focus on.
Ken Rideout
Well, you know, I hosted a podcast for years with Teddy Atlas, called The Fight with Teddy Atlas. And together he trained Alex Volz dick who fought out of it. They we had the WBC title of better be ever had the IBF title at the time and Teddy asked me to come be his assistant trainer in eight week training camp in like 2019 I think. So I lived in Philly with the fighter and and that's when I mean this is a world championship unifying fight a pay-per-view ESPN pay-per-view.
Bobby Rich
Which by the way is another layer to you know we were talking about whether it's social and people seeing and you go fight well that's another layer to have all of that pressure.
Ken Rideout
You never seen like and and in addition to that I've been in the locker rooms with MMA fighters I'm friendly with Dustin Poirier I was at the Jake Paul and Tyron Woodley fight in the locker room with both fighters and you can see
Bobby Rich
An eerie place right? It's in the locker room before it's an eerie place.
Ken Rideout
Oh yeah yeah I like it's not a fun place to be it's like Poirier Poirier was telling me he's like that you know cuz he's on American talk team he's like listen I've been in the locker room with MMA fighters about to go in the UFC and the fighter starts crying and says I don't want to do this and the coach talks him into it and he goes and the guy goes out there and wins the fight.
Bobby Rich
Yeah.
Ken Rideout
That puts into perspective like what's going on like I I tell my children that like my youngest my middle son is is very timid and he was playing baseball and every time the pitcher threw the ball he would step out of the box and I said buddy every time the guy throws the ball it looks like you're scared. He goes I am. And I was like oh okay I I I I said you know something I was too and I'm scared of a lot of things I'm scared at races but you know what you have to do is figure out a way to do this scared.
Bobby Rich
Yeah.
Ken Rideout
And you need to convince the pitcher scared to get a home run hit off him. You have to get in there and and and convey confidence even when it's pretend. You only have to fool the other guy you don't have to fool anyone else. But you can also fool yourself your brain is very powerful it listens to the way you talk to it. So if you're saying oh my god I'm so scared it's you your body starts to believe it but you can also say F this guy.
I'm going to drill this right back at him. And I say you can you can balance that. It only has to be 1% louder
Bobby Rich
that you can do on that note. You know, there was times I remember like you know, I I was I was pretty consistent with how I trained and what I ate and my routines. But you know, there'd be weeks where you know, I was I was working. I was I was a coach, you know, the third space for you know, I I used to be up every morning for 6 7 years at 4:30 every morning to go and train some clients.
There was no money in Judo. So I had to I had to be up early. So there was weeks where you know, I had work was hard or relationships, arguments with girlfriends or whatever and just and you've eaten [ __ ] or you haven't slept well and you know, you just you turn up with this kind of you turn up at a tournament and your mindset's just like
Ken Rideout
Yeah.
Bobby Rich
Like you just you're not thinking. You're just kind of loose. You're relaxed and you you've had a [ __ ] week but you end up you go out and you end up in the final because your mind isn't You you think like how much worse could it be? Like you know, you've just like I've had a [ __ ] week. I've slept badly. I'm this and that and you just go out and you're not you're not overthinking and I've ended up in finals or winning tournaments.
And then on the flip side, you know, I'm like I've slept so good. My training's this. My you know, everything has been perfect and in my head my mind is telling me like certain things of like how you know, perfect everything has been but you then start putting pressure on yourself and then you go out and you lose you lose first fight. So it hindsight is
Ken Rideout
My wife would always tell us she tells everyone. She said anytime when I would be getting for ready for a race and I tell her like I'm going to [ __ ] kill everyone. I when I went to Berlin to run the marathon in 22, I'm like I'm killing everyone. I'm going to destroy. I'm so fit and I was. But then I went out and ran like I was fitter than I was and at 17 miles I was like bleeding from my eyeballs and I like barely finished.
I went to the at medic tent like barely like practically on life support. And 2 weeks later I ran 2:29 in Chicago, which was blazing fast, but it just very it gave me validation that I was in good shape, but I [ __ ] it up. I was too confident. I made too many arrogant mistakes. And it's a good lesson, but what you were saying, when you're a high performer, like you're talking about diet and sleep, and this is what what's important that I hope a lot of people get.
When you're performing at a high level, you can't get away with like missing sleep, eating [ __ ] Everything affects you. When your body is running at its
Bobby Rich
Yeah.
Ken Rideout
In your version of optimized, it's like having a highly tuned sports car and putting the cheapest gas in it. When you eat badly or you don't sleep right. And it sounds might sound like corny or cliche to people who don't want to win very badly. But and and it's all relative. Like I know I'm not an Olympic runner. I'm not a professional runner. But my running is we can see you running in a minute.
My running is
Bobby Rich
As much as you're talking about fighting, it's something I like I did a marathon once. I we'll talk about it in a minute, but like
Ken Rideout
My running is as important to me as an Olympic runner is to him. So as and the only opinion about me when my running that matters is my own. And to me it's the most important thing in the world. So when I'm not doing everything right, I'm like, you stupid bastard, you did all the hard stuff and then neglected the diet or didn't go to bed cuz you were like reading freaking online
Bobby Rich
Imagine you told yourself this, right?
Ken Rideout
Yes.
Bobby Rich
Honest with yourself.
Ken Rideout
Yeah.
Bobby Rich
And that's when you can make changes.
Ken Rideout
That's it.
Bobby Rich
And that's I touched on it earlier, but that's when people, you know, that's how I walked away when I walked away cuz I'm like I I know I did what I needed to. And I still didn't make it. Well, that's it's when people aren't telling themselves the truth, then and they don't make the changes, then it's like, oh, poor me.
Ken Rideout
Well, that's the point with my new the new book that I just released, Everything You Want on the Other Side of Heart. It's easy to dismiss the title and be like, oh, whatever, but I said I've been doing interviews all week and with like TV hosts. And I'm like, well, was it easy for you, Chris Evans, to be the host of Virgin Radio? Was it easy for you to finish a marathon when you the first thing
Nothing worth having is easy. If it was easy every [ __ ] would do it.
Bobby Rich
But then you got the you know, the thing with that and what's what are the everyone's got their own thing that makes it hard, right? Like I think that what people don't know we touched on this I did an interview a short while ago. And like sometimes it's not the training sometimes it's not the lack of sleep, sometimes it's it's the the you know, the the other sacrifices you make of like you can't make this dinner, can't make that celebration, can't go on this holiday, can't go you know, and then you've got those external pressures of guilt that you couldn't show up for your family members or partners or you know, so that's you know, that was that was a big thing.
That's that's the thing that you also have to deal with on top of the volume and intensity of training and everything else like that. So
Ken Rideout
Well, that's the one thing that Teddy Atlas talked about a lot. He was like when you see a guy get screwed on a judging scorecard, the amount of effort it takes to get to the front of the line and challenge for that title and then to get robbed. People don't realize the missed proms, the missed dates, the missed Thanksgivings. I spent eight weeks and didn't see my kids at that training camp. It was it was and then we were winning going into the 10th round on all the scorecards and he got knocked out in the 11th and lost and if we won all the coaches probably would have got two a copy of each of the belts, WBC and IBF.
Instead zip.
Bobby Rich
Nothing.
Ken Rideout
Nothing.
Nothing. It was it was devastating for everyone involved.
Bobby Rich
Yeah, that's the stuff
Ken Rideout
It's like a freaking death.
Bobby Rich
Yeah, so that's the you know, that's the that's the stuff that people don't see.
Ken Rideout
Yeah, and everything he would always talked about that that talk about that really resonated with me was that feeling before you go into a fight and dealing with the mental challenges that come up and all these scenarios that are happening in your head that are like highly highly unlikely to happen. But they but but the things that can happen in your imagination are so they're endless. And then you get in the fight and you're like, "Listen, I've done all the training. We're going to be like razor thin in terms of ability.
I need to handle my business. Yes, some bad things could happen, but there's just as many good things that can happen."
Bobby Rich
But that's where you need to turn, you know, you need to turn the volume down on those things that come in. And that's what sets champions apart, when they can turn down the noise, cuz I guarantee everyone's got that noise. But it's how you turn that up and then how you dial up that that focus.
Ken Rideout
And he would say that the place where you lose the most fighters because the hardest thing in the world is that like hour before the fight when you're in the locker room. How intimidating is that?
Bobby Rich
Well, it's just cuz it's intimidating in the sense of just like it's the anticipation, right?
Ken Rideout
Yes.
Bobby Rich
It's just
Ken Rideout
Like being a gladiator, man. You walk to the wall and the crowd's roaring.
Bobby Rich
But it's all anticipation. I mean, the the favorite part for me of the day it was like it was the first grip.
Ken Rideout
Yeah.
Bobby Rich
When I gripped up, my first grip
Ken Rideout
Yeah.
Bobby Rich
That's when I knew how today was going to go. Yeah. Not like, you know, I could never predict
Ken Rideout
Yeah.
Bobby Rich
Like, am I going to get thrown here or that this minute or am I going to win or lose. I could certainly predict of like, "Okay, this is how I'm feeling today."
Ken Rideout
That's right.
Bobby Rich
There'd be some days, you know, you you've got all that anticipation waiting before off the mat. The minute you step on the mat, and everything just went
Ken Rideout
Yeah.
Bobby Rich
And you feel your heart.
Ken Rideout
Yeah.
Bobby Rich
And then you just feel that. But then you still haven't gripped up. You have to walk to the edge of the mat, you bow. Referee says, "Hey, Jimmy." And you grip, and you're like, "Okay, my arms don't feel like lead."
Ken Rideout
Yeah.
Bobby Rich
I'm good to go, right? And then you're like, "Okay, or else they like they feel like lead. I'm fucked."
Ken Rideout
See that with the first smile of a razor, you're like
Bobby Rich
Okay, so on this, right? You're talking about you're talking about judo and mindset and impress, you know, let's turn it on you for a second. But I did a marathon 5, 6 years ago. I did it in Rwanda with a good friend of mine. First marathon and only marathon I've done. But it was the hardest thing I've ever done in my life. It was a terrible time. It was like 5 hours, you know, it was like the the temperature and the humidity was crazy. It was I remember coming out of the start line and the first sort of like 5 6 K were just like downhill.
I was coming out it was like high-fiving villages, people coming out. Someone was like, you know, you got to do this on the way back. I was like, oh [ __ ] you got to turn around and go back. You know, I had music, I had podcasts, I had I had curated like playlists to listen to and I remember like 3 and 1/2 hours in, I remember like taking out my AirPods and I ended up throwing them in like the forest in Rwanda cuz everything was bothering me.
I was just anyone that's doing like, you know, long-distance running, long-distance swimming, those individual sports. I'm so fascinated. I got a friend of mine William Gooch who's a endurance runner and he's just like, I'm fascinated what goes into that. Judo's reactive, right? Yeah. There's a lot that I have to deal with personally, but I'm also I kind of want to lead, so I don't just want to react to what someone's doing, but there's an element of like if I don't do something, you're going to you're going to throw me, you're going to choke me, you're going to arm bar me.
So, I have to do something if I want to win. But running, you have to put that leg that leg that leg in front of each other and keep going and that for me is just oh, I just and that for me I just find unbelievably more impressive than my own mindset.
Ken Rideout
Oh, remember this. When you're running, you're in control of the pain level and no one's going to punch your face.
And you could just stop.
Bobby Rich
Yeah.
Ken Rideout
You could just go and that was the I remember that marathon and I was just like, I could just I could just peel off.
Bobby Rich
Yes.
I did minimal training, but I knew I was strong enough or let's say stupid enough to know if I'm going to start it, I'm going to finish it. But Ken, that was that was by far the hardest thing that I've ever done. I mean, I didn't it was like part of the national like trials for African runners or whatever happened, but it was just like, you know, I didn't want to know anything. I did like a 10 K and a 5 K for for running, so it was no surprise at like 13 K and left calf flew up and I But, yeah, I I finished it, but that was by far the mentally, that was probably the toughest place I've been in, despite my career in sport.
Ken Rideout
Yeah. Yeah. It's just a different kind of intimidation. Trust me, I'd always rather be like at the in control of my own pain versus someone else seeing the weakness and being like, "Oh, I got you."
Bobby Rich
Out but that's upbringings and that's you're used to and what you're conditioned to, so yeah.
Bobby Rich
Where did you grow up?
East London.
Ken Rideout
Oh. Oh, okay.
Bobby Rich
Before it was cool. Before it was cool, it was a It was a rough place, which might have been why my mom got me into another sort of reason she got me into judo to look after myself.
Ken Rideout
And did you go to university?
Bobby Rich
No, I I went to college, so I've got to college.
Ken Rideout
College is high school for Americans, right?
Bobby Rich
Sorry, it's after. So, we have high school, and then you have college before in between that and university.
Ken Rideout
Okay.
Bobby Rich
So, I went to college. I mean, it was just at that point I was doing a lot with judo. So, it was how can I balance the two, and I I to stay in London where my judo club was, so I went to Greenwich here and studied sports science. That was That was that, and that's what led me into into coaching.
Ken Rideout
And then how did What were you doing with with David Haye? Were you doing strength and conditioning?
Bobby Rich
Yeah, so I was his fitness coach. So, we talked about Third Space around the corner, the the gym around the corner. So, back in 2001 they opened the Third Space. They've got 12 or 13 sites around London now, but back in 2001 they opened up It was a 30,000 square foot uh fitness facility, but it was like the first of its kind really. This is 2000, and they had a dojo in there, they had a boxing ring, they had rock climbing, they had uh a hypoxic chamber.
They had They would just had a integrated medical center, physios, GPs. It It was just a phenomenal space. It was a It was a real sort of turning point in my fitness career, my fitness professional career, and also for my training. You know, I I was a coach, but I also met a great coach there in Phil Learney who took my S&C as well. Um I was perfectly capable of programming for myself, but I love even being a coach, I loved having a coach. Yeah, making me accountable.
Makes a huge difference. Huge difference. So, um that was That was a Third Space back then, but David Haye was He was also training out of the Third Space. They had a big boxing center there, and Adam Booth was the the head of personal trainers at the Third Space. So, that's how we met. And um but it was uh it was It wasn't for a few years after I left the Third Space that I got the call from Adam said, "Would you come on board and uh prep David for his next fight?" which was supposed to be the Klitschko fight.
Yeah. Which never happened. Um It had a bit of an altercation in Germany with David and Derek happened, and um that fight happened, and uh that was my That was my time in boxing, which
Ken Rideout
Who did he have the car What was it? Chisora?
Chisora. Derek Chisora is a crazy bastard. I love him, but he's crazy as a bed bug. He's He's a tough man.
Oh, yeah?
Bobby Rich
Like a tough tough man. I mean It was funny, we were in Germany, and I didn't I didn't know Derek at the time. I I was actually I saw him a few weeks ago. And um but the first time I met him was in Germany when the the big fight at the press conference it kicked off. And despite being, you know, my grappling abilities, I'm strong and happy to to wrestle. When it kicked off, I found myself in between David Haye and Derek Chisora and literally like one in this hand, one in that hand and I'm like please don't punch me.
You know, I can grapple but I'm not taking a I'm not taking a punch off you guys. But that was That was my uh route into boxing. Whereas with Adam Booth for a few years, we had Andy Lee, ex-world champion.
Ken Rideout
Oh, Irish Andy Lee. Irish Andy Lee.
I was in the New York Athletic Club boxing one night and he comes in with Klitschko and Emanuel Steward.
Bobby Rich
Yeah, so he was
Ken Rideout
And I was in there and I like moved around a few rounds with Andy Lee and then he got in there and sparred with Klitschko. Andy Lee was like a little bit heavier than me.
He was something close to Klitschko in size, yeah.
Klitschko heavyweight champion.
Bobby Rich
Yeah.
Ken Rideout
And Andy Lee was giving him all kinds of problems.
Bobby Rich
He was a phenomenal character. Phenomenal character.
Ken Rideout
He's a great guy. He's huge, too.
Bobby Rich
Like he's coming to his absolute own, you know, he was working closely with Adam Booth. He used to coach him but there was something, you know, and then again, also, what we were talking about like seeing something in someone, you know, just his attention to detail in the ring, out the ring.
Ken Rideout
Brother, he was training with Emanuel Steward at the Kronk gym as a white guy from Ireland in like that
Bobby Rich
Some of those images and I'm like, how did you like, you know,
Ken Rideout
But when you spar with Andy, you can see it. He's like he is unbothered. He is not intimidated. He's not a bully. He's not like what, tough guy. He's just like himself. And I have huge respect for him.
Bobby Rich
But that whole world between Andy Lee, George Groves, David Haye and Nathan Cleverly. So yeah, that was boxing. That's that's another That's another world. I mean, you're very familiar with that world. I just I was in it for a moment and it was like, wow, that was that was quite eye-opening, you know. I used to We used to have a gym in Vauxhall. Um that that David's HQ. And we used to have sparring nights there. Yeah. And I used to see George and Chris Eubank spar each other, you know, Deontay and David Haye.
And Deontay, you know, he was not what he is now. You know, he was kind of not no one, but like he came to the HQ on his own with no entourage of sparring nights. And it was just him being there. And I look back and I'm like Yeah, the world of boxing is just an insane world.
Ken Rideout
When I worked at the prison as a guard, Mickey Ward was a guy there with me. He just called me yesterday when when the book came out, he's like, "Hey, hey, I just wanted to tell you how proud I am of you." I was like I was like Like I was It was all I could do not to record it and be like, "Guys, look who called me."
Bobby Rich
Oh yeah, it's just I love Mickey
Ken Rideout
Mickey Ward is he's the man. So, when you're doing the boxing training, is that how you segued into start to work with these different athletes, celebrities, and become kind of like trainer to the stars?
Bobby Rich
No, it was actually
Ken Rideout
I know you wouldn't describe it that way, but you are.
Bobby Rich
Yeah, yeah, you know, I've been fortunate, you know, I've worked with some great people.
Ken Rideout
How did you start working with Guy?
Bobby Rich
So, Guy was actually everything really everything Judo was the start of everything uh for me, you know, I attribute Judo to my who I am today, how I carry myself, and and what I stand for. But Judo also also thrusted me into areas and worlds that I would never have entered if had I not done it. I mean, I was at the Budokwai was my Judo club. I mentioned Ray Stevens earlier, he was the Olympic silver medalist. He was my coach at the time. And it was we're talking like 2004, 5.
Um, Guy was heavily into Jujitsu. Guy's a black belt in his own right under Renzo Gracie.
Ken Rideout
Oh, he is?
Bobby Rich
Yeah, yeah. So, he's he's a tough boy. He's a tough boy. So,
Ken Rideout
Is he from Essex?
Bobby Rich
No, he's from London. He's from London, yeah. So, at the Budokwai we had Judo upstairs. And that was the GB Judo team. We were training Monday nights, Tuesday nights, Thursday nights, Saturdays. And then pretty much at the same time in most of those days there was the judo club downstairs. Yeah. So, Roger Gracie sorry, the jujitsu club downstairs and Roger Gracie was coaching downstairs. And there was like half an hour at the end of the jujitsu guys downstairs used to finish half an hour before the judo guys.
So, the jujitsu guys used to come upstairs and want to get in an extra half an hour with the with the judo guys. And quite often we were we were standing which was great cuz Roger used to come up and like he'd do some standing with us. And if he came up and we were doing some ground work, he'd be like Hoja's going to tie you up like a you know, like a Christmas present with a bow on top.
Ken Rideout
He by the way, he is the perfect guy the Gracie's are what you're talking about that they don't have to grab you strong. They're just like flowing like water and uh he's whatever you do, he reacts to it like when he does that like just turtles like a rock and he's like go do what you're going to do and you try to get him in a choke and next thing you know, he's reversing
Bobby Rich
A smile and he's just he's horrendous to fight. Horrendous. He's just he's calm and like thing with Roger is just his fundamentals. It's like outstanding. Yeah, outstanding. Like his control and his pressure is just like
Ken Rideout
Flawless technique is what
Bobby Rich
Yeah, what and with Yeah, it's exactly. But they used to come up upstairs at the end of their session and they used to come and do some judo. And part of that crowd was got was Guy Ritchie. So, he he used to come up and um there's several fighters over the years that have been used in Lock, Stock and Two Smoking Barrels. Yeah, as extras or actors. I love it because they're all like, you know, with his cauliflower ears or broken noses. They're all like the the gangsters in in those films.
So, he'd use those. And he um he had said to Ray one day, he said um so, my assistant has turned producer. I'm just looking for someone that can can train me first and foremost. I want to get my fitness up, you know, someone that could do some fitness, some strength training, some um judo, some jujitsu, um but also could be my assistant. And Ray kindly at the time, was like, "There's There's a guy I think you should meet."
Ken Rideout
It takes a special skill set to be an assistant to a high performer like that. So, it's not just like, "Oh, let me find a guy who's in good shape and knows training." Being an assistant is like a It's a very difficult
Bobby Rich
Have no right I didn't really thought about that the time. He had just said like, you know, cuz I was I was coaching at the Third Space at the time. So, that was like between judo and fitness, that was my identity. And when I'd been introduced to it, it was like, "That's That's what I'm going to do."
Ken Rideout
It's It's the It's the fitness. It's the coaching. So, I didn't really hear assistant. Yeah. You know, that's all I heard.
Bobby Rich
All of a sudden, I you know, I turn up to his house to start work and there's, you know, him and the you know, the ex, you know, I I'm at their house and I'm like, "Oh, like Madonna's 24, 25-year-old judo fighter, what what am I doing?" You know, I'm now assistant as well to to Guy Ritchie. But that's that's that's how I met, you know, but that was That was a phenomenal time. We were together for five or six years together and across numerous films.
You know, when he would be on production, I would be working with the talent that are on his films, um coaching them, prepping them for films, and keeping them fit during the productions. And um subsequently met Jason Statham through that through that journey and and worked with him closely for a year or so out in LA and, you know, working with the stunt teams and working with him and, you know, on fight scenes, you know, in LA with 87Eleven, which is like one of the greatest stunt stunt teams there are in the world.
Ken Rideout
How did you like living in LA?
Bobby Rich
It was uh I'd like to give it a uh another go.
Ken Rideout
I love
Bobby Rich
Beautiful.
Love living there. I mean, I was there I'd like I said, I'd like to give it another go and do a little bit more of a fair fair try because I mean, I was still competing. You know, these guys I was working with Guy cuz he met me how he met me.
Ken Rideout
Yeah.
Bobby Rich
He was beyond like He took so much pride in the fact that I was working with him that I was trying to get to the Olympics. Like he was beyond supportive on that whole journey, which was just like I needed so much time off and so much on it. And he was phenomenal. But you know, but he also kept me busy when we were when we were working side we had was was in LA but like always Jason was in LA but I probably didn't experience Yeah.
What you know, experience that the living the um LA as it should have should have been.
Ken Rideout
Yeah. When those guys are filming movies like whether it was Guy or Jason like how busy are they when they're in production? Like they basically have no life from what I understand, right? You're working like long long days.
Bobby Rich
Yeah. I mean I just I remember and Guy and I got on very well very quick. Yeah. And um he sort of opened his heart and arms and doors to his world, you know, so I mean these you know, we're in production meetings and he's at the head of the table I'm sitting next to him. I didn't I'm like who the hell is this guy?
Ken Rideout
Were you surprised at the like workload and were you surprised at the attention to detail how many takes they would do cuz every time I've been on a commercial set or any kind of movie set I'm like how many effing times do you want to record this? Get it once. Don't ask me to do this again.
Bobby Rich
Yeah. I mean I was just in the film set I was I think it was RocknRolla Guy was my first film with Guy. If you look closely in the background I'm I'm a Russian bodyguard in one of the scenes, you know, I was trusted with no words but I was I was in the background somewhere. But I remember being on a film set and I remember being in I think we were like we were in East London one day with you know, production buses and offices mobile offices and you know, 100 odd 150 crew members and then you wrap and then the next day everything overnight is just gone and you're in Southwest London.
You know, and it's it's not far but like it's it I just I just had to move. You think about the logistics, the people and everything that goes into I just remember the attention to detail and I was just like blown away. They're fasc- fascinating world. Yeah, fascinating.
Ken Rideout
So, you work with Guy for five or six years. How did you meet David?
Bobby Rich
Through Guy.
Ken Rideout
Again?
Bobby Rich
Okay, Guy pretty much kicked it all off.
Ken Rideout
So, then you ditch Guy and you start working with David?
Bobby Rich
No, there was a little bit there was a little bit in after I left Guy, I went and worked with Jason and then I came back. He was out there. We did a couple of productions. I came back and then worked with with David Haye. Um and then I did some other work with Guy and we met David on a on a commercial that he did and um and that was it. That must have been maybe 15 years ago or so and
Ken Rideout
That speaks volumes of you though. David we're talking about is David Beckham and his wife Victoria. Like the the the the relationship I see with you and him is so close and you know, you work with someone 15 years as your trainer and there's like 15 years like some of the days I want to throw my wife out a window. Never mind like another guy you're spending that much with. But I think it speaks volumes about both of your personalities that you're such good friends through 15 years.
You know, as a as the as the athlete you could easily be like, "Hey, you know what? Let me just mix it up a little. I'm getting a little stale. Let me try another trainer." So, for you guys to have that kind of staying power like that is a testament to your character and and his to be able to be that good of a friend with him.
Bobby Rich
Yeah, you know, it's I guess that's maybe early doors working with Guy. I'm just being you know, sort of initiated into that world and sort of being open-minded and understanding. And you know, you take it back to performing when I was you know, it's it's as much as what you do off the mat, you know, all of those external stresses I was talking about, you know, so applying that sort of understanding to to clients and their lifestyles. I mean, you know, some of my guys that I've trained over the years, you know, that it's almost like the gym stuff is easy.
Yeah. The programming, you know,
Ken Rideout
That's right.
Bobby Rich
I've been doing that for 20 years, you know, you can program it, but you know, the amount of times I've had, you know, one of my guys or girls come in and off a flight and you know, 10-hour time zone different and, you know, they've been to Asia and they're back-to-back and, you know, that their eating's all over the place and
Ken Rideout
Yeah.
Bobby Rich
They come back and they're willing to train, you know, David's a prime example, like he's always he's, you know, he is like coach's dream and just wants to, you know, always push himself. But there'll be times I'm like, let's go for a cuppa.
Ken Rideout
Yeah.
Bobby Rich
Let's, you know, let's or let's do a motivational session.
Ken Rideout
There to protect
I mean, I just
Bobby Rich
Yeah. You know, I mean, David's one of the world's greatest football players, you know, he will push himself. He needs to be told to stop.
Ken Rideout
Yeah.
Bobby Rich
You know, so that's I think that, you know, that's what I took from my own training and understanding external stresses and taking that into my professional career as fitness trainer.
Ken Rideout
Was he still playing football when you started with him?
Bobby Rich
No, no, he had just he had he had retired.
Ken Rideout
Oh, okay.
Bobby Rich
Retired.
Ken Rideout
So he's probably trying to get some muscles cuz when you're around like that, you're like skinny.
Bobby Rich
Funny story, we used to um I used to go to Barry's Bootcamp.
Ken Rideout
Yeah.
Bobby Rich
You know, there was me, Guy, there was a whole crew of us that used to go early doors to Barry's Bootcamp. And, you know, it's it's the programming, you know, like but I we used to just we used to love it.
Ken Rideout
Yeah.
Bobby Rich
Of us that used to go 6:00 a.m. in the morning, bit of running, chuck some weights around, but it was the community and
Ken Rideout
Yeah.
Bobby Rich
David was like, I'm I'm going to come down, you know, so we used to do that and then 6:00 a.m. class 6:00 a.m. class used to be quite quiet class, yeah. Then all of a sudden it's like, I'm on the waiting list, you know,
You're all on the waiting list cuz he's there.
But like I remember David came along and he's on the treadmill next to me and he he hadn't done too much training. I think there was a period of time where it was just you know, he'd taken it easy. He'd he'd put his body through Yeah. a lot, you know, he he was active on that pitch like Oh, yeah. kilometers that he used to cover. So, you know, and I did the same when I when I retired, I did that MMA fight, but after that I was like, you know what?
I'm just going to go and live a little bit and then you know, I'm not drinking crazy, but like if I wanted a glass of wine or a beer or
Ken Rideout
Yeah.
Bobby Rich
Have a late night or eat a bit of cake or that, you know, I just and see some friends and just live life. That was me. So, um I remember one morning David comes in he's like, "I'm going to come." He comes down and he's running next to me. And I'm like, I'm not the strongest runner at all.
Ken Rideout
Yeah.
Bobby Rich
But like give me a 100 m, give me 200 m, give me 400 m. My anaerobic capacity was pretty strong and I I'm I can push myself. You know, I remember here they cuz it's like they they do it like, "Right, 12.5 mph sprint. You're going to be like" And I remember David next to me and I'm like for I'm like killing it. And he's next to me and like you know, I'm I'm like beating him like he's doing the same pace, but feeling like and I'm I'm not very it's not an attractive sight me running at fast.
I'm just hanging on for dear life. He's the slim runner. He's like this, but I I just I just spoke to him on the running. He literally came back It must have been the next day or the day after. And that muscle memory or that drive, that mental thing, he just blew me out the water. And by the way, he was like it was like watching a
Ken Rideout
Yeah.
Bobby Rich
A gazelle run a riot. It was just smooth. It was just and I was like, "Okay." I said to him on the pitch
Ken Rideout
He's got that fast twitch muscle that like you just can't train that. And you if you don't run like that, you're never going to get it. It's like an Olympic sprinter. If you have seen an Olympic sprinter in person, you understand like you don't know how to run. Yeah. When you see them, you're like, "How are their legs moving that" Like when you see that in person, an elite track athlete for me, I'm like, "How the [ __ ] are their legs moving that fast?"
Have fast twitch muscles that you cannot develop.
Bobby Rich
Yeah.
Ken Rideout
But the key is having all that skill and having the work ethic, the willing to die to win part that you can't be that guy.
Yeah.
Bobby Rich
So, that's that you know so back to the point of you know there's those times that you know you have to stop clients. You have high performers, whoever they might be, CEOs or ex-athletes. It's like you know they're the they're the ones you have to slow down sometimes and like pay attention to like what's going on in your eyes. Like I say, "Hey Ken, how are you this morning? What's happening?"
Ken Rideout
Yeah. Yeah.
Bobby Rich
And I'm kind of listening to what you're saying, but I'm like I'm looking at your you know coloration of your skin. I'm listening to your breathing. I'm like how you're saying it, you know, and then then you kind of you quickly go "Okay, cool. Okay, we're just going to adapt this program. We'll spend however long, you know." So, it's yeah, it's uh it's been a journey, but an absolute pleasure.
Ken Rideout
And as you've been getting more into it, I know you're doing more stuff with different brands. I see you and David with IM8 all over the place. How involved are you on the business side in terms of product development, marketing, intel cuz you're a marketing wizard. You're really good at it and I see you incorporating David into the content and it's a compliment to you, but it's like IM8 for instance is super lucky to have a partnership like you and David that are like cuz they can have David, but if no one's pulling the content out of him like like we talked about earlier, you can't just call David and be like, "Hey, give me this content." But they can call you and say, "Hey, can you record this?" And you know, you guys are friends and it looks like it works.
How's that How's How is that part of the business been for you doing the brand work and then how about incorporating it and getting to do it with David who like you guys obviously are friends?
Bobby Rich
I just with IM8 it was uh super natural um partnership that came out of uh their first meeting. You know, you know, David's co-founder with Danny Young. Um and they had I don't know how many talks they had at the point that they came to me, but they're like, you know, we're interested in doing this. We'd love you to meet the team. This is This is your world in health and fitness. Uh so, early doors we we must have been like 2 years ago now, maybe coming on to 2 years.
So, you know, probably 6 months prior to the launch of IM8 I was out in Hong Kong to meet Danny Young and the Prenetics team and honestly the the team was just you know, it was it was refreshing. I was there for like four or five days and we really didn't talk too much about the product itself, you know, and about you know, what it's going to look like or what it can create and what it can it was more about it was I was going to say movement but without sounding like a cliche it was it was more about you know, changing an aspect in health and fitness for the good and for for the bigger picture.
Ken Rideout
Yeah.
Bobby Rich
You know, it was it was talking about what they could do in this in this arena. I mean, I remember sitting at the dinner table once and we're going round the table here. I'm sitting next to Danny here. And there must be 10 or 12 people at the table. We're all meeting for the first time and there's some doctors there and some surgeons and some nutritionists and some incredible PR marketing teams there. But we go around the table and looking back now I'm like I wish Danny had gone this way, right?
Started with me, you know.
Ken Rideout
Probably better.
Bobby Rich
I'd have been rich. I'm I'm a fighter. I'm a I'm a fitness coach. I'm a fighter, you know. But they went round the other way and um so we go around here. I'm last but before me sitting here is is uh James Green, Jim Green, you know, former NASA scientist of 32 years, you know. And then after I have to introduce myself to him but that was the kind of caliber of individuals that were brought to the table with iM8 and what they were trying to achieve in this in this arena with supplements was was really impressive.
Um so after that meeting went back fed back with the team of my thoughts and feelings and and equally lucky that they responded with my my thoughts and feelings and said we'd love to love to have you on board. Um and yeah, it it's worked out. So yeah, equally lucky on that front.
Ken Rideout
Um but it's been a wild journey. It's been super successful. Like, Frenetic's stock is through the roof. The sales are like close to 100 million. Like, I mean, partnering with you and David, I think, was the linchpin to get it going.
And then, obviously, he brought in the It's now the scientist, but he's also got Dr. Dawn, who I think is
Oh, my god. This Dr. Dawn is just like
Bobby Rich
I love what a person. I love her. I remember meeting Dawn a few times that I was like, she can't be real. Yeah. There's There's no one this positive. There's no one, you know, this can't be. And then, you meet her three times, four times, five times, and you're just like, oh, it's it's real.
Ken Rideout
Yeah, every
Bobby Rich
She is that incredible, right?
Ken Rideout
Dr. Dawn is a stage four cancer survivor. While going through her cancer treatments, I had heart failure and got a heart transplant, then ran a marathon. She was head of, I think, oncology at Mayo Clinic.
Bobby Rich
Yep.
Ken Rideout
She's highly accomplished, double board certified cancer survivor, heart transplant survivor, marathon runner. And on top of it all, she's absolutely gorgeous. And the guys
Guys were teasing you, like, "Ken, we get it. You think she's good-looking." I'm like, "I don't care."
Bobby Rich
But it's everything.
Ken Rideout
Yeah, I don't care. If I've said it a million times, if someone tells me I look handsome, I'm like, "Tell me more." So, I don't have a problem telling you she's beautiful, and she's got the best personality ever. My friend Rich Roll just interviewed her. I just love her. I She's When my wife got diagnosed with cancer, first person to call, Dawn. Andrew Huberman and Dawn on top of me. They were like, almost like, "Don't care if you're not interested in the call. What What can we do to help?
Mayo Clinic at your disposal. Andrew Huberman, Stanford Stanford oncology at your service." And it was
Bobby Rich
But, this is the You know, so that's that's the kind of caliber of people, yeah, you know, um, and regardless of their credentials and everything they've done professionally, they were just some good people around the table wanting to make some change happen and do some good things. So, you know, it was an easy decision to jump on board, you know, and then with the business taking off, it's a it's a fantastic product. It's a beautiful looking product.
Ken Rideout
Yep.
Bobby Rich
But you scratch the surface and you're like, oh, they mean business.
Ken Rideout
They've also got my man Dustin Poirier.
Bobby Rich
Yeah, yeah, he's uh you know, he's a
Ken Rideout
I saw you guys did an awesome boondoggle in Montana. The Poirier was where he wasn't there. I mean, I'm
Bobby Rich
Obviously my background in in combat sports. Dustin and I, we we communicate, you know, via MMA. Like, "Hey, what's up, buddy?" But we've not we've not met and he was I think he was going to come out but didn't for whatever reason. But I was super super pumped to meet him, you know.
Ken Rideout
He He gave me a beautiful blur for the book along with you on the UK part. And Dustin is a really good friend. He just I was just talking to him the other day, but it just an awesome guy. And if if Danny has done anything well there, it's surrounding himself with the right people. I'd be remiss if I didn't mention also Dr. James DiNicolantonio. I almost get his last name wrong cuz it's got 3,000 syllables. Dr. James D. But I love his I love all of his raps on sodium intake and salt and the importance of salt and just how misguided people are.
Even like my my in-laws, my my parents, anyone older in my life and they're like, "Butter and bacon?" I'm like, "Are you crazy? Stop eating processed food and all the sugar and all the [ __ ] you're eating. Eat real food." And uh but James Dr. James D really understands that and I love how he drives that home online. He's got a great social
Bobby Rich
It. He drives it home in a really, you know, these guys that we have on board, you know, we've got people that you can sit there and they can just blow your mind
Ken Rideout
Yep.
Bobby Rich
With what they know
Ken Rideout
That's right.
Bobby Rich
About the human body and it it can absolutely blow your mind. But then on the flip side, their delivery of that information to someone that has no idea
Ken Rideout
That's right.
Bobby Rich
Is equally as incredible to me to, you know, for someone that's might be overweight or, you know, has no idea of this, you know, we're in this industry in health and fitness and we look after yourself. It's been part of our life for God knows how many years, but there's we're like maybe the minority. There's a lot of people out there that it they they don't know what's you know I mean you can quite easily say if it looks bad you know you should know if that what's on your plate looks bad or not but some people just don't know.
Ken Rideout
If it you have no idea if it can live in your cupboard for a couple weeks then get rid of it unless it's nuts or some dried food.
Bobby Rich
There's a huge huge number of the population that have no idea.
Ken Rideout
That's right.
Bobby Rich
That right? So having the likes of Dr. James and Dawn and how they deliver that information to your average Joe is equally important and it's just phenomenal how they do it.
Ken Rideout
Well I think that too there's so much information now there's no excuse to be let yourself go like your body is your cover letter to your resume and you should carry yourself the way you want to be received by the world. When I show up somewhere and like when I saw you and you're like you look great I'm like you couldn't give me a bigger compliment. You couldn't say something nicer.
I think I stroked your abs as well as I went past but you look great feel good.
Thank you Brad.
But you couldn't say something nicer to me and I think that that's why I like stress like when I see Dawn oh you're so pretty and I like we've gotten so sensitive that like was that inappropriate is [ __ ] inappropriate for me to tell you you look nice get out of here. It'd be one thing if I was like saying it like a deviant but um
Bobby Rich
I mean with Dawn there's like there's there's everything there's this glow there's this it's just I can't and I I'm not shy to when I see her I tell her every single time I just like Dawn you're amazing. It's her birthday today by the way. I think it's her birthday today so
Ken Rideout
Oh it is well happy birthday.
Bobby Rich
Yeah yeah.
Ken Rideout
Well I and I know you understand this too but I always tell people man your health and wellness mental and physical is the most important thing in your life. It's it's your number one responsibility. It has to take precedence over everything including your children because if you don't take care of yourself guess who's going to take care of you. You want that burden on your kids? I don't. I'm scared of that. I don't want my kids to have to do anything for me until it's absolutely
Bobby Rich
That's that's a big that's a big shift. That that's a huge shift because you can quite easily and and we did for a minute or have we did my partner she's huge into health and fitness and she she loves the gym. She you know, she's an absolute beast. Um but you know, kids happen, you know, and life gets busy and you can quickly put things aside and you know, certainly with our first kid, you know, it was just like you know, I'm slightly old now I'm 45 and you know, 3-year-old and a 6-month.
And I did I kind of just parked everything for a minute cuz I'm like this you know, I just
Ken Rideout
Yeah.
Bobby Rich
This time I'm never going to get back. But you do you you have to flip that switch because you go okay, you could quite easily just slip into a new routine that is not going to benefit this pride and joy that you have on your lap which by the way is the only thing we live for, right? It's just that that's just my you know, thing these days I just like you know, where uh it's that's that's a whole 'nother podcast. But it's uh yeah, you you you're tired.
The days are long. There's you know, so but you have to make those sacrifices, you know, it's Okay, so I'm not working and I'm not working with someone else now I work for myself and do I need to get up at 4:30 or 5:00 like I did when I used to work in a gym before I had to go judo? No, but if I want to get something done and to make sure I can be the best version of myself for my kids and be there you know, like she dropped something or she wants me to jump up and run something I can do that without thinking about I have to get up at 4:30 or 5:00 to get my gym session in before the day starts cuz once that day starts there's no getting that back.
Ken Rideout
This is what I tell people, right? Your kids are going to hear some of what you say, but they're going to see they're going to understand everything that they see. And the way you lead is by example. People even with coaching right, you know, you can tell someone what to do, but there's nothing like demonstrating it. Yeah. Yeah. And my children watch everything I do and and when you get to the point where you know, like I have a little girl she's 15 now and there was a period where she's like dad drop me off around the corner like she's just embarrassed of her parents in general.
Of course, as a dad you're like, "How dare you be embarrassed of me? I'm the coolest dad in this [ __ ] place. You have no idea. Let me tell you how cool I am. Let me tell you if if it just randomly flipped one day where she's like, "Oh, dad the the when my oldest son was like I was dropping him at a party he's like, "Dad, can you come in and meet the other kids' dad?" No kid wants you to come in and meet the other parents.
And it's because all his friends love me. He's like, "Dad, everyone in the school wants me to bring a signed book." I'm like, "I dude, I only have so many books." And and but that Let me go to the boot of a car. I've got plenty more. But that feeling of pride of knowing that the kids are proud of what I'm doing is like you can't put a price tag on that and it's available to everyone.
Bobby Rich
Yeah, I mean I went to I got invited to she's 3 years old she's at nursery. Yeah, she's everything's exciting to her but I got invited to the school the other day just to teach her a 20-minute fitness class. And by the way, it's not fitness it was we did like an animal adventure. 20-minute party you know, fitness party class and um she's 3 so she doesn't quite understand, you know, like your 15-year-old but she was there.
Ken Rideout
Yeah.
Bobby Rich
She was next to me. I don't know what she was just like glued to me. Yeah, and without saying it it was just that and I was just you know, it was it was it was a pretty special moment. But listen, you talk about your 15-year-old thinking you're cool. I see your you know, I can't run for [ __ ] My knee's blown and I hate running. I watch you in your videos and I'm like, "Shit, I want to run."
Ken Rideout
I was I was good. That's my hope is that people get inspired cuz I don't feel confident posting on social media. It doesn't come naturally to me. Talk about your wife though. You mentioned that she's fit and I've seen her I've never met her but I've seen her on social media and every time I see her I'm like, "Jesus." This woman is like a fitness model and she's gorgeous. I mean, she's the whole package.
Bobby Rich
She is uh I'm a lucky I'm a lucky dude. Um yeah, she's I mean
Ken Rideout
What's her name?
Bobby Rich
Jovana. She's an absolute beast. You know, and I say that
Ken Rideout
What's her background?
Bobby Rich
Compliment. Uh she's Bosnian.
Ken Rideout
Yeah.
Bobby Rich
Is her background
Ken Rideout
A athletic background?
Background.
Bobby Rich
She She was never professional at anything. She um her And by the way, this is something we're going to adopt with her mom and dad in instilled with her. Um was there was nothing particular sport. I mean, she loved tennis and swimming.
Ken Rideout
Yeah.
Bobby Rich
She She competed quite heavily for school, and she grew up in Kuwait. Um she bought
Ken Rideout
Oh, really?
Bobby Rich
Four kids off there, and then she moved it She was in Kuwait for 10 years and 10 years. So, she's She's had a very varied background, and then it kicked off there, then you know, she came back. But um her her growing up, her mom and dad was just like, "Listen, you're going to do a sport. Whatever Whatever it is, you choose it, but you're going to do
Ken Rideout
Exactly what we
Bobby Rich
And if it's not that, okay, cool, but choose another one. Yeah. And I I have huge respect for that.
Ken Rideout
Yeah.
Bobby Rich
You know, it's She's And she's just kind of carried through and we're going to do that with our kids. You know, would I like them to do jiu-jitsu and judo? 100%.
Ken Rideout
I just want them right now. All the things you think your kids are
Never going to happen. Just abandon Never going to happen.
Bobby Rich
They might.
Ken Rideout
Yeah.
But I can tell you my kids all play lacrosse. I've never played lacrosse. I brought them all to jiu-jitsu. Everyone quit except the little one, but the little one is smart. He knows how to like get in my good graces, and
Bobby Rich
Yeah.
Ken Rideout
They'll be like, "Dad, he's just sucking up. He's being a brown noser." And I go, "Guess what? I like people that like me. You should try it."
Bobby Rich
On.
Ken Rideout
Yeah.
They're like, "You're favoring him." I was like, "Yeah, obviously he's my favorite." I just Whatever they say, I'm like, They're like, "You like Tensei the best." I'm like, "Of course I do. She's my girl."
Bobby Rich
Yeah.
Ken Rideout
"You like Cameron the best." "Yeah, of course. He likes me the most." I just ignore it, and it's like, it's so stupid. And then I'm like, "I hear you all equally."
Bobby Rich
Yeah.
Ken Rideout
At different times.
Bobby Rich
Love you all, but hate you all equally. Ourselves.
Ken Rideout
Yeah, exactly.
Bobby Rich
But it's Yeah, that was That was That was her growing up. It was just like, "Yeah, you're going to You're going to do a sport. Pick which one it is. You want to stop swimming, you can play tennis. You want to play tennis, you're going to do netball." Whatever Whatever it was. So, that was That was her growing up. So, she's always, always been active. Um she does yoga, Pilates. She loves her S&C work, you know, she's she's always chasing me, you know, she's just like, you know, I finish this block of training, get my next block ready for training, and she's just like I cannot fault her.
You know, I will set her something, she will do it to a T.
Ken Rideout
Yeah.
Bobby Rich
Pre-pregnancy, post-pregnancy.
Ken Rideout
How did she handle pregnancy? Cuz I know for a lot of women that's that's very difficult when they like gaining weight.
Bobby Rich
We're [ __ ] right?
Ken Rideout
Yeah. Oh, when I looked at my wife when she was pregnant, I would go, "You know that that thing has to come out of you, right?" Like I'm panicking.
Bobby Rich
But it's that, it's everything after, it's everything before. I'm just like I I it just can't say
Ken Rideout
Yeah.
Bobby Rich
Enough good things. There's no point in starting. It's just wild. And we're so insignificant, you know, but it's um it was it's tough. I mean, but yeah, I say it's tough, but she handled it and like it it's you just you just fall in love.
Ken Rideout
Yeah. Over again.
Bobby Rich
That's right.
You know, with the person she is, but then also the mother she is. It just just incredible, incredible.
Ken Rideout
There's something sexy about when it's your own partner. Like my wife had um three C-sections and has like, you know, C-section scar. She's like, "Look at this C-section scar." I was like
Bobby Rich
[ __ ] it's beautiful.
Ken Rideout
"Am I a weirdo?" Like I find it sexy. I was like, "I wouldn't want to
Bobby Rich
Because of that, we've got that.
Ken Rideout
It's a I said, "It's like it reset my physiology." I'm not blowing smoke. I don't need to like [ __ ] pretend to be nice to my wife on here. Like I just tell it like
But there's like you'll get called out. You're probably like me, you'll get called out.
Yeah, of course. There's something about any kind of And again, I hesitate to even say imperfections, cuz she's perfect. But you know, there's things about your wife that you like I I like the things that you think aren't attractive are the things that I like the most.
Bobby Rich
Yeah.
Ken Rideout
And there's just so And I
Bobby Rich
It to you know, memories and I know you've created your children and the memories that you have with your kids and the whole package, you know, so I totally get you on that. I totally get you on that. Yeah, when
When she tells me certain things, she's just like, you know, how she was before. But I mean, she's like, she's back to where she was.
Ken Rideout
Yeah, I know. I see her.
Bobby Rich
Which is like, and then so part of it is just like, do you do you see what I see?
Ken Rideout
Yeah.
Bobby Rich
But we're all like that. Nothing's ever
Ken Rideout
Right. Good. And I feel like they get stronger with it. I honestly I think they get like a higher red blood cell count. Like marathon runners have come back and be stronger after children. I think it's literally a physiological change that their body like adapts to that stress and gets comes comes out tougher and stronger on the other side.
Bobby Rich
Surprise me. But again, it's also the mindset and like, you know, she's got to do her mindset as well. So it's also just like, what am I going to do? Yeah, I'm not going to do it. That's not an option.
Ken Rideout
And you guys work together now on different training programs and protocols.
Bobby Rich
Yeah, well we've got a company. Owners is our agency. Um, we do gym design.
Ken Rideout
Um, so you'll go in and map out like, let's cut the cables over here, bench press.
Bobby Rich
Yeah, yeah, pretty much. So we do So we our company, we've got three three verticals. So we work in partnerships in health and fitness advisory and then the gym design stuff. And that that's from different levels. You know, we work from early stage developers and architectural um, stages. So early doors, mapping things out to working with hotels to upgrade their zoning and their flow and equipment and procurement of new equipment and trends.
Ken Rideout
Oh, we're not talking about just hotels. We're talking about the best hotels in the world. You know, the
Bobby Rich
We've got some good hotels. Um, but you know, it's also from my clients I've been working with over the years. We've been doing it for 15 years. I've done numerous private residences for my clients, you know, I'm fortunate enough that many of my clients they've got gyms in their own homes that we've been doing that. So but it's in the last few years. I mean, this in the wellness health and wellness industry has exploded in, you know, it it's constantly been like that. But in the last three to five years, it's exponential.
It's it's insane. So it's it's kind of all tied into that. But
Ken Rideout
Well, the thing with that and the training that I want to highlight and that impresses me is like and I was using this example recently. I was talking to my oldest son about going to university or what he wants to do and I'm like, you don't have to go to university. It's becoming less significant. Thank God cuz it's so crazy expensive and some of it's all [ __ ] I mean, I have a degree in sociology. I've never used it for anything, but you couldn't get the finance job without a
Bobby Rich
Yeah, of course. Of course.
Ken Rideout
But what I told him is he's he's taking flying lessons. He wants to like learn how to be a airplane pilot and I said, "Listen, if you're into flying planes, like someone is going to start an aviation company every couple of years and they become like a international power player. Someone is going to be an electrician. 10 guys are going to be an electrician in this like area next year. They're going to be new electricians. Eight of them are going to get salary jobs and they're going to be happy and they make whatever they make.
They they work for someone. But two of them are going to start electrical power players that are like known countrywide and they're going to grow it and it's like training. There's going to be trainers that will train you for 50 bucks an hour and then there's going to be guys that have trained David Beckham, Guy Ritchie. Like what separates the winners from the losers? Cuz you're one of the guys who's like, "No, I'm going to stay doing what I want to running. I like I've made it into a career." How many people are professional runners running the Olympics but can't figure out a way to make money doing it.
I'm always intrigued by guys like you that take a career that could be basic and elevate it to something
Bobby Rich
It's really interesting 20 years ago, right? When there was no socials, there was no like shouting about who you're training or you didn't. By the way, even for a long time when there was socials, you know, it was a lot of the individuals that I was training, they were you know, the early days of socials, it was they were still super private.
Ken Rideout
Of course.
Bobby Rich
And I would you know, I I would never, you know, scream and shout who I was training or what I was doing.
Ken Rideout
That's why I brought that up cuz I know you wouldn't.
Bobby Rich
And you know, maybe that's why I'm in the position with with the I mate team and David and, you know, them coming to me and asking, bringing me to the table as opposed to like fighting my way to the table, you know? So, it's uh yeah, I was doing that 20 years ago and it's it wasn't what it is now, but stuck with it and I you know, as I was doing judo and understanding the capabilities of and how far you can push the body um and mind and what you can do with that.
I just found it fascinating. And then I also I enjoyed this. That's why we're here and having a chat. I just I enjoy I enjoy this uh one-on-one. I'm not doing as much coaching anymore, you know, between the um the other parts of the business that we're doing, but, you know, I've got a handful that, you know, it's uh it keeps me in the mix and I just I just love I love coaching.
Ken Rideout
Yeah, well, I think it shows because it's hard to it's hard to fake your way through a career that requires so much attention, but it's also there's nothing more refreshing than getting paid to do something you love. I say to my wife once a week, "Can you believe I don't have a job?" She's like, "What do you mean?" I'm like, "I'm not working." Sometimes I have calls with people that I want to punch in the face, but normally I can distance myself from them, you know, it's like when you're working on a trading desk and you hate the guy across from you, you you better get comfortable hating someone and figuring out how to coexist.
Bobby Rich
I don't have any and you start deciding who you want to associate
Ken Rideout
It ain't easy though.
Bobby Rich
You can't marry By the way, once that
It's not easy.
It's not easy. Everyone wants that.
Ken Rideout
What are you going to do about it?
Bobby Rich
Yeah, by the way, what are you going to do about it? And that's everything.
Ken Rideout
That's my answer to everything.
Bobby Rich
What are you going to do about it?
Ken Rideout
That's my answer to everything.
Bobby Rich
To do about it? What are you going to do about it? Once you get you know, what are you Yeah, literally.
Ken Rideout
That's what my daughter said, "Dad, I want a uh I want a new lacrosse stick." I'm like, "What are you going to do about it?" She's like, "What do I have to do?" I'm like, "I don't know. Give me an idea. What do you want to do to earn the money?"
Bobby Rich
Yeah.
Ken Rideout
She's like, "Um can I vacuum your bedroom?" I'm like, "No, I'm already did that." Yeah.
Bobby Rich
And it's funny, by the way, what you were talking about your son and, you know, university. You know, there's there's many trades. You know, let's talk about like dawn and you know, that you need to go to university. You need to go to study. There's certain trades that you that you really have to. But we're in a position now, and I think, you know, obviously I I went and studied, but did I I didn't go to university.
I went to college. But my mother I I had found what I wanted to do.
Ken Rideout
Yeah.
Bobby Rich
Sadly, there was no money in judo, right? There was no like so it's not like aviation you're talking about your son's interested in flights that you know
Ken Rideout
Or aviation mechanic and make like a salary and never sure.
Bobby Rich
But it there was literally no money here in judo back then. Different different now, you know, you've got partnerships and you sponsorships and all of that lot. But back then there wasn't, but she knew I'd found my my why and my want in judo. And I made it clear that that was that was the path I wanted, you know, so she said, "Right, you you still need to finish your studies, okay? And then after you finish your studies, you can decide whether you want to further those studies.
Um but judo was my judo was my uh was my focus at the time.
Ken Rideout
Yeah.
Bobby Rich
You know, by the way, when you're in training camps, there's huge amount of time that, you know, you have your head stuck in stuck in books revising and studying, you know, in the downtime resting between sessions and the tournaments. But uh But yeah, I think as long as, you know, and that's one thing that we we always talk about my you know, my partner's done a master's and she she she went to international school. She's she's gone the traditional education route. But um always think about, you know, it's we we we I don't know.
When when we get to that point, what are we going to do? You know, if they find if our kids find that thing
Ken Rideout
Yeah.
Bobby Rich
It's very different now, you know, there's so much access and you know, to reach out to someone.
Ken Rideout
Yeah, you didn't get a PhD on YouTube.
Bobby Rich
Yeah, but also just connecting to someone it's just like right, I want to connect to the CEO of so and so, right? Boom, boom, LinkedIn.
Ken Rideout
That's the other thing that we've done for the kids is pathed a way where and you know, people will be like, "Oh, you can't do everything for your kids." No, no, I'm killing myself so I can help my kids.
There's also that flip side of you don't want to do too much, right? You still need what you have in you, that hunger, that what are you going to do about it, that
And that's what you do demonstrate and then to them daily and hope that they get it by like osmosis.
Yeah, for sure. Even sitting here doing things like this, you know, at some point they're going to look back and hey, what did my dad do when he was younger? They're going to look back and they're going to be like, "Hey, you know, like you know, I hope that I whatever I'm doing is going to hold up whenever they see it in 20 years time and that they're either proud or haven't embarrassed them too much or you know, and
They're going to be proud that you're doing it. You're doing it all, you're winning, you're at the top of your field. I'm proud to be your friend.
Bobby Rich
Still places
To go.
That's right. You know, we don't stay complacent.
Ken Rideout
That's why you're in the place you're in because you're never satisfied. No one at the top of their game is satisfied.
Bobby Rich
Most likely Giovanna wouldn't put up with my
Ken Rideout
Exactly. That's one of the nice things about having a high-performing partner.
Bobby Rich
Indeed. Indeed.
Ken Rideout
Well dude, thanks for doing this, man. I love you. You're a good man. I'm proud to be your friend and is there anything else we How do people find you? What do we need to know?
Bobby Rich
Hit me up Instagram, Mr. Bobby Rich.
Key takeaways
- Junior success did not prepare Rich for the strength and pace of senior judo.
- He kept competing through a year of early losses instead of treating them as proof he could not improve.
- Missing the Olympics forced him to reconsider the identity and future he had built around judo.
- Nerves can remain present while an athlete still acts with confidence.
- Long coaching relationships depend on listening and adjusting plans to the person in front of you.
- A connection at a judo club opened Rich's path into coaching elite athletes and film work.
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