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Episode · Dec 24, 2025 · 1 hr 37 min

From Failing on the World Stage to Winning on It

with Trey Hardee

Trey Hardee is a two-time decathlon world champion and Olympic silver medalist.

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Summary

Trey Hardee traces his career from getting cut from his high school basketball team to pole vaulting and the decathlon. A book scholarship brought him to Mississippi State, where he learned new events and kept training through injuries and coaching changes. After transferring to Texas, he won an NCAA title and moved toward professional competition. He also recalls the pressures and setbacks that came before his first Olympic appearance.

At the Beijing Olympics, Hardee no-heighted in the pole vault and lost his chance at a medal. He says he felt ashamed of letting down teammates, coaches and supporters. His coaches asked whether he was committed to competing, and he rebuilt his training instead of walking away. Eleven months later, he won the decathlon world title. He and Ken discuss his Olympic silver after elbow surgery, why effort matters more to him than a score, and the coaching and training he does now.

Show notes

This week’s episode is with Trey Hardee, a two-time World Champion in the decathlon and Olympic silver medalist.

Trey opens up about one of the most defining moments of his career: failing publicly on the Olympic stage, the shame that followed, and the surgery and rehab that forced him to confront whether he was really finished. We talk about what it takes to sit with failure instead of running from it — and how that process ultimately led him back to the podium.

This is a conversation about discipline, patience, and doing the work when no one’s watching — and what’s possible on the other side of hard.

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Transcript

Made from YouTube's automatic captions and lightly corrected, so a few words and names may be off. Click a time to play the video from there.

Ken Rideout

All right, let's do this. Trey Hardee, best athlete in the world. I feel like uh whenever I mention your name in someone, there's like Trey Hardee, I'm like I have a visceral reaction. I'm like, you don't know who the best effing athlete in the world is.

Trey Hardee

For well, like former like it was a long time ago. Doesn't matter to me. It

Was a long time ago.

Ken Rideout

If you're the best athlete in the world once, you're the best athlete in the world forever to me. Two-time Decathlon world champion, Olympic silver medalist, handsomest guy I know. Tall, good-looking, smart.

Trey Hardee

Listen, we can stop this right now and just go on a date. That'd be fine.

Ken Rideout

Anyway, thanks for being here, man. I love you.

Trey Hardee

I can't do Thanks for having me. My pleasure.

To have you in town. It's always a bummer if I find out you were in town. Even if you're like super busy, I would have Yeah, I make it happen. Come see you.

Ken Rideout

That's true. I do feel guilty when I show up somewhere and don't tell everyone that's important that I'm there.

Trey Hardee

But sometimes you know a lot of people you'd have you got to do that or else you'd never get out of town.

Ken Rideout

And I'm old man after I run and do some work during the day. Like last night I was supposed to go to dinner at like 6:00. I told Ben and the guys I was with I'm like dude I have to go to my room. I did a long interview. I did a bunch of other stuff. I'm like I I need to be alone for a little while. I just ran out of juice.

Key takeaways

  • A public failure can expose the work and commitment still missing.
  • A coach's blunt question can turn embarrassment into a decision about whether to commit.
  • If an injury closes one path, look for the events and training you can still do.
  • Consistency matters more than one burst of motivation when learning a multi-event sport.
  • Winning can mean completing the work and giving your best, not just posting the highest score.
  • Trust your support team and keep doing work you can be proud of.

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